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Natalie, a mum of two, had a stroke during surgery for a brain tumour, but now she’s celebrating ten years of life she never thought she’d have.

Natalie, mum of two, is bravely sharing her story to raise awareness of the life-changing impact of a brain tumour after suffering a sudden seizure behind the wheel of her car just days into her new job.

Natalie Fowler, who was 32, at the time and from Merthyr Tydfil, had just completed her first week in a new role at a GP surgery, instead of a leisurely drive home, she experienced a frightening seizure at the wheel. Her niece thankfully was in the passenger seat and acted quickly and instinctively, managing to stop the car, preventing any accidents. 

On a warm July afternoon when Natalie and husband Stephen sat in a consultant’s waiting room preparing for what was to come after various CT and MRi scans, they were told, ‘sell your house and hope for the best’ as news of the diagnosis was delivered. 

Natalie says she was completely blindsided by the diagnosis. “I never imagined that something like this could happen to me—especially so suddenly. One moment I was settling into a new job, and the next, my world changed completely,” she shared. 

Determined to bring hope and insight to others, Natalie is speaking out about her journey through cancer treatment and a major life-changing operation. Her goal is to show how fragile and precious life is—and how quickly everything can change. 

“I want others to understand the signs and to know that help is out there. More than anything, I want people to see that there’s life after diagnosis. There’s strength in sharing our stories.” 

Natalie’s courage in coming forward is not only a testament to her own resilience but also highlights the importance of early detection, family support and the help from Welsh charity Tenovus Cancer Care in dealing with a diagnosis. 

Husband Steve explained: “We were told it was a brain tumour and although it was slow growing, Natalie’s prognosis was no more than 10 years. 

“I just remember the doctor saying to us ‘sell your house and hope for the best’.” 

The couple whose two young children at the time were just age 13 and 11, were in no doubt they had a difficult path ahead of them. 

The diagnosis of an oligodendroglioma, is a rare type of tumour, about three out of every 100 primary brain tumours are of this type. 

The tumour was found to be the same size as a large egg and the course of immediate action was to have chemotherapy to shrink the tumour which started in Sept 2015, but Natalie was still having regular seizures. 

Steve explains: “In December 2018 there was a surgeon at the Heath Hospital who said that it was likely that 90 per cent of the tumour could be operated on and removed. The operation took place in January 2019, and it was whilst Nat was having an *awake craniotomy (being awake during the op to monitor the brain’s functions) that it became apparent she couldn’t speak or move.  

Steve added: “It wasn’t obvious at first; but then an MRi scan showed that Nat had a stroke during this procedure. She couldn’t tell me what was wrong, and she also couldn’t move.” 

There followed a difficult route of trying to get the best treatment, along with speech and language and occupational therapists so that Natalie could communicate again. 

Tenovus Cancer Care were able to provide support and provided help in managing finances and around the possibility of Natalie maybe not being able to work again.   

We also helped with arranging power of attorney for Steve as Natalie had difficulty communicating and a lot of the bills in the house were managed by Natalie beforehand. 

The years that have followed have been difficult, with regimes of chemo and speech and language therapy and the lockdown during the Covid pandemic meant further setbacks in speech therapy.  

Steve added: “Natalie felt even more isolated than she had done the previous 15 months as she was learning to communicate again and then she was unable to go out anymore or see or speak to people when lockdown happened.” 

It was around this time that Steve took up running as a way to cope with all that life had thrown at them both. He knew it would be hard, and he started off by building up to a 10K and to keep his own fitness levels to a point where he felt comfortable. 

“I saw running as a way to get both physically and mentally fit to cope with the day ahead and the uncertainty of a cancer diagnosis. In the words of the consultant, Natalie’s life expectancy was ten years, and it makes you look at life in a different way.” 

Steve would get up at 5am to start his running regime and concentrate on being in the moment as much as he could and be back home before Natalie would get up in the morning. 

It’s now 2025 and with three London Marathon’s behind him, his next endeavour is to tackle the Las Vegas Marathon in October to mark the 10 years they never thought they’d have when first given the diagnosis back in 2015. 

Being able to take back control of living life the way they want to live life, with purpose and ambition. 

And not keen to stop there, Steve is organising a special Golfing Day in August to take place at The Vale Resort in the Vale of Glamorgan to support Tenovus Cancer Care for the help and support the family received. 

Natalie, now 43, had her last chemo and radiotherapy in July 2023 and life is busy for the couple as Natalie has gone back to work part-time and Steve, 44, who works for a plumbing company, is planning the corporate golfing day at full speed, wanting to give back to a charity who helped them at their lowest point.

 

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